āKenoughā: Is 'Barbie' more revolutionary for men than women?
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Ā鶹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲBoulder PhD studentās paper argues that the hit film exemplifies āmasculinity without patriarchyā in media
M.G. Lord, author of Forever Barbie: The Unauthorized Biography of a Real DollĢżand co-host of the podcast LA Made: The Barbie Tapes, describes Greta Gerwigās Oscar Award-winning, box-office behemothĢż as āincredibly feministā and widely perceived as āanti-male.ā
Meanwhile, conservative critics rail that the movie is āanti-manā and full of ābeta malesā in need of a testosterone booster. Conservative British commentator Piers Morgan called it āan assault on not just Ken, but on all men.ā
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Ā鶹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲBoulder PhD student Julie Estlick argues that Greta Gerwig's award-winning film Barbie is "a really good film for Ken."
But Ā鶹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲ women and gender studies doctoral studentĢżJulie Estlick sees things differently. In her recent paper, ā,ā published inĢżFeminist Theory, she argues that the movie is āa really good film for Ken.ā
On first viewing, Estlick noticed a woman nearby having a āvery visceral, emotional responseā to the now iconic monolog by actor America Ferrera, which begins, āIt is literally impossible to be a woman.ā
She wasnāt particularly moved by the speech, and walking out of the theater, she realized she didnāt see the movie as a clear-cut icon of feminism.
āI really questioned whether the film was actually about Barbie, and by extension, women, at least in the way people were claiming,ā she says.
Once Barbie was available for streaming, Estlick took a closer look and arrived at a heterodox conclusion:
āBarbie is not anti-man; it is pro-man and is not necessarily a revolutionary film for women, at least not as much as it is for men,ā she writes in the paperās abstract. āThis is because Barbie espouses non-hegemonic masculinity through cultural critiques that are rare to see in popular media.ā
Hegemonic vs. toxic masculinity
For Estlick, āhegemonic masculinityā is a kind of stand-in for the ātoxic masculinityā so often featured in media: superheroes, gangsters, vigilantes, killing machines who are also ālady killers.ā Always strong, rarely emotional, such men are absurdly impermeable to harm, and sport chiseled features and perfectly sculpted abs, she says. Yet many are also āman childrenā whose āultimate prizeā is to have sex with a woman.
āThat kind of media comes at the expense of women, works against women, and often oppresses women by sexualizing and objectifying them,ā Estlick says.
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In the film Barbie, the patriarchy ultimately doesn't serve the Kens any more than it does the Barbies, argues Ā鶹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲBoulder PhD student Julie Estlick. (Photo: Warner Bros. Pictures)
Non-hegemonic masculinity is strong without being oppressive, and supportive and protective of women without regard to any quid pro quo. It allows for men to openly express emotions and vulnerability and to seek help for their mental-health struggles and emotional needs without shame, while retaining their strength, vitality and masculinity.
āIt does the opposite of hegemonic masculinity,ā Estlick says. āIt works alongside women and doesnāt harm them in any way.ā
The Kens are first represented in the movie as clueless accessories to the ruling Barbies of Barbie Land. But after Beach Ken (Ryan Gosling) and Stereotypical Barbie (Margot Robbie) find a portal to our world, Beach Ken returns and establishes a patriarchal society in which women become mindless accessories to hyper-competitive men in the thrall of hegemonic masculinity.
But ultimately, the patriarchy doesnāt serve the Kens any more than the Barbies.
āAs people always say, menās worst enemy under patriarchy isnāt women. Itās other men and their expectations, who are constantly stuffing men into boxes,ā Estlick says.
Which isnāt to say that women donāt also enforce strictures of hegemonic masculinity.
āWhen little boys are taught to suppress emotions, little girls are watching. They are watching their fathers, and fathers onscreen, acting in certain ways,ā Estlick says. āGirls internalize toxic ideologies the same ways boys do.ā
Allan the exception
In Barbie, there is just one male who stands apart from Kendom: Allan, played by Michael Cera.
āAllan is positioned as queer in the film in that he is othered but not less masculine in the traditional understanding of the word,ā Estlick writes. He ādeviates from the conventional canon of masculinityā and āuses his masculinity for feminism and to liberate women while also protesting patriarchy.āĢż
Allan doesnāt fit into Kendom, with or without patriarchy. As the narrator (voiced by Helen Mirren) notes, āThere are no multiples of Allan; heās just Allan.ā
The character is based on a discontinued Mattel doll released in 1964, intended to be a friend to Ken. Fearing the friendship might be perceived as gay, the company swiftly removed Allan from store shelves, later replacing him with a āfamily packā featuring Barbieās best friend Midge as his wife, and a backstory that the couple had twins.
In the film, non-toxic Allan is immune to patriarchal brainwashing and sides with the Barbies in re-taking Barbie Land.
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ā(T)he film can be understood as a vital framework for masculinity that allows for vulnerability, emotion and heterosexual intimacy among men,ā says researcher Julie Estlick. (Photo: Warner Bros. Pictures)
āRight off the bat we see (Allan) as queered from the rest of the Kens and Barbies,ā Estlick says.
But Beach Ken, too, eventually senses that heās not happy in the patriarchal society has created. In one of the movieās final scenes, a tearfully confused Beach Ken converses with Stereotypical Barbie from a literal ledge:
āYou have to figure out who you are without me,ā Barbie tells him kindly. āYouāre not your girlfriend. Youāre not your house, youāre not your mink ā¦ Youāre not even beach. Maybe all the things that you thought made you arenāt ā¦ really you. Maybe itās Barbie and ā¦ itās Ken.ā
In other words, Barbie is rooting for Ken to claim his individuality.
āBeach Kenās house, clothes, job and girlfriend all represent boxes that society expects men to tick, but this scene illustrates that it is okay to deviate from normative behaviors of masculinity and that manhood is not solely defined through heteronormative bonds and behaviors,ā Estlick writes. And āit is acceptable for men to admit to a woman that they need help.ā
Barbie is pure, candy-colored fantasy. But in our world, Estlick believes it points the way toward further non-toxic media representations of masculinity and ultimately contribute to better mental health for men trapped in a āman boxā ā as well as women who have borne the burden of menās self- and societally imposed strictures on their own humanity.
ā(T)he film can be understood as a vital framework for masculinity that allows for vulnerability, emotion and heterosexual intimacy among men,ā she concludes. It ā(opens) the door to the creation of more media that subverts societal expectations of toxic masculinity.āĢż
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