How to be a Buff: Interrupting racism
Systemic racism continues to deeply affect our communities. As Buffs, it鈥檚 important that we address acts of racism (and other acts directed at those who are targeted or marginalized) when we see or hear them. There are many effective bystander strategies for helping others if you witness instances of harassment.听
Here are some ways you can interrupt racist actions and harassment and look out for each other.
Recruit others to help
If you notice a situation, you can alert others nearby or friends that something is happening. With more people aware of the situation, there are more people who are able to assist. If possible, find others who may know the people involved, who may have some kind of authority or who may bring a different skillset or vantage point to the situation.
- 鈥淒oes that situation seem a little problematic to you?
- 鈥淭hat seems messed up. We should do something.鈥
- 鈥淚鈥檓 sorry to bother you. There鈥檚 a situation I need your help with.鈥
Go covert
A successful 鈥渃overt鈥 intervention might not look like an intervention at all to someone else watching the situation. Make your presence known and approach the person who鈥檚 being harassed. Make eye contact and greet them as if they were a friend you hadn鈥檛 seen in a while. Start talking to them with a simple conversation starter, like asking how their summer was or what they鈥檝e been up to lately. Create distance or a barrier between the harasser and the person being harassed and start to walk away with the person being harassed.
Depending on the dynamics and whether it鈥檚 safe, another option might be to record the situation or enlist someone to record it while you take other action.
- 鈥淗ey, don鈥檛 we have class together? What did you think of that last project?鈥
- 鈥淗aven鈥檛 I seen you at this bus stop/building before? Do you know when the next bus gets here/when they unlock the doors?鈥
- I鈥檓 so glad that I ran into you - it鈥檚 been awhile. Come meet my friends.鈥
Be direct
Talk directly with the person being harassed and let them know you are there to support them. Ask them how you can help and take their lead. If a direct approach may escalate the situation, don鈥檛 engage with the harasser. Alternatively, if it does feel safe and possible, distract the harasser or tell them to stop. Asking them in a calm but firm manner to stop saying hurtful things or to leave the person alone can be an effective approach.
- 鈥淎re you okay?鈥
- 鈥淵ou look upset, what can I do?鈥
- 鈥淭his situation is not okay. Let鈥檚 get out of here.鈥
- To the harasser: 鈥淲hat you are doing is not okay. I need you to stop.鈥
Now vs. later
Sometimes helping doesn鈥檛 have to be limited to right there in the moment. Check in with the person who was harassed afterward and see what they might need. Ask if they鈥檇 like help reporting the situation or if you should call for help. Remember that for some people and communities, police presence can create additional fear or harm. Whenever possible, take the person鈥檚 lead about who to call for help and whether to call 911.
- 鈥淚 saw/heard what happened. What can I do to help?鈥
- 鈥淭hat was messed up. Do you want my help to call someone or report this?鈥
- 鈥淚 don鈥檛 want to do anything that makes things worse, and I鈥檓 here to help. Let me know what you need.鈥澨
Campus Resources
You can help look out for your fellow Buffs and address others who may use racist language, tell racist jokes or engage in racist actions. You can learn more skills for having tough conversations or calling someone in about problematic comments or actions. It is critical we have these conversations--racist language and actions harm members of our community.听
There are resources available on campus:
- Learn more skills for how to help a fellow Buff
- Report a situation through the Don鈥檛 Ignore It website or
- Find resources through the Center for Inclusion and Social Change听
- Learn more about how to be an ally to the Black and Indigenous communities and communities of color
If you or a friend have experienced a traumatic or life-disruptive event, the Office of Victim Assistance provides free and confidential support, short-term counseling and advocacy for 麻豆免费版下载Boulder students, grad students, staff and faculty.